When we moved in together shortly after our third anniversary, things hit a crisis point: When Jesse and I first got together, every second I spent away from him felt like a punch in the face. What if he just needs more time? Can you handle that pain, day after day, for years? Because I might have just given women stuck in dead end relationships which will never lead to marriage the false hope that they too will be one of those success stories, and the motivation or excuse to hang in their for another couple of years or more. There was never a time I wanted to have a panic attack because my boyfriend wasn't answering his phone.
If you feel like you want to be with him and what I just posted made your heart sadden, or the idea of living without HIM, nothing to do with your home, or the comfort of what is familiar, then, only then would I suggest staying with him, because you should stay and love who you love, not what is easy or familiar.
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Why is he even with me??? And I want to leave him, but it is hard. Dating someone that isn't in your daily circle can open up a whole world that you would never have known existed. The interesting thing about this situation is he has three kids 4,7 and 25 by three different women. Instead of fighting it, or worse, judging your new SO for their squad, soak up the fact that you both get some alone time with your respective crews. If I could go back I would have left when I found out.